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Has it ever happened to you?

Has it ever happened to you?

A nice afternoon. Green tea, chakli (roasted, mind you) and chocolates. A pretty blue book by the name "Bijnis Woman", revolving around short stories and folklore from Uttar Pradesh. 

Awesome book, odd stories, totally enjoying it. Though halfway through one story as I kept reading away, I realised suddenly that I must have zonked out. So I must be thinking about something and the same time subconsciously I kept reading. Then when I came back to my senses I realised I have gone ahead a couple of pages and I have no idea what this story is about. So I had to re read the pages again. This happened to me twice today. Guess I was that engrossed in the tangles of my own head.

Has it ever happened to you? 

So I thought why not dedicate this post to a series of my unfortunate "Has it ever happened to you?" moments. 

Once I offered to help out on an unpleasant task that I had no interest doing. Sometimes you just want to "show" that you ar…
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